Sexual Intimacy Part 4

Session 9 | Episode 4

Satisfying sex, the secret?

Today we end our talks on sexual intimacy by sharing the secret to satisfying sex. And no, there is no 10 steps or 5 to do’s that will change your sex life but, there is a liberating truth; ‘if we pursue a satisfying marriage relationship, we will enjoy a satisfying sex life!’

There is no 10 steps or 5 to do's that will change your sex life but, there is a liberating truth; 'if we pursue a satisfying marriage relationship, we will enjoy a satisfying sex life!'

Marriage prospers when a couple’s focus is on good, and solid, and authentic values.

So, what do we value in our marriages?

Companionship

Song of Songs simply states; ‘…he is my lover, my friend…’ – Song of Songs 5:16. It is about communication, sharing and listening. It is about spending time together and enjoying the things you both love – as if it is a first date again. It is about tenderness, expressing affection, showing love without sex.

Be friends and then be lovers!

Commitment

Song of Songs says, ‘Place me like a seal over your heart … for love is as strong as death‘ – Song of Songs 8:6. Be faithful, constantly reaffirm your covenant, build trust, develop healthy attitudes towards your spouse and towards sex. It is about respect, and forgiveness.

It is about choosing to live life together in the power of blessing!

Passion

Song of Songs says, ‘You have captured my heart … your love delights me, my treasure … your love is better than wine … your lips as sweet as nectar … honey and milk are under your tongue …!’ – Song of Songs 4:9-11.

Be fun, be explosive, be playful and be passionate!

Remember – companionship together with commitment and passion create an environment where your sexual relationship can flourish.

Presented by

Gerrie Holtzhausen

After completion of his Theological Studies at Stellenbosch University, Gerrie served as pastor and missionary for 30 years in various contexts in South Africa and Mozambique.

He and Wienkie currently live in Pretoria, focusing on pastoring and life coaching in family environments. He is an associate staff of Campus Crusade for Christ as part of FamilyLife.

Gerrie Holtzhausen

After completion of his Theological Studies at Stellenbosch University, Gerrie served as pastor and missionary for 30 years in various contexts in South Africa and Mozambique.

He and Wienkie currently live in Pretoria, focusing on pastoring and life coaching in family environments. He is an associate staff of Campus Crusade for Christ as part of FamilyLife.