Today we end our talks on sexual intimacy by sharing the secret to satisfying sex. And no, there is no 10 steps or 5 to do’s that will change your sex life but, there is a liberating truth; ‘if we pursue a satisfying marriage relationship, we will enjoy a satisfying sex life!’
Marriage prospers when a couple’s focus is on good, and solid, and authentic values.
So, what do we value in our marriages?
Song of Songs simply states; ‘…he is my lover, my friend…’ – Song of Songs 5:16. It is about communication, sharing and listening. It is about spending time together and enjoying the things you both love – as if it is a first date again. It is about tenderness, expressing affection, showing love without sex.
Be friends and then be lovers!
Song of Songs says, ‘Place me like a seal over your heart … for love is as strong as death‘ – Song of Songs 8:6. Be faithful, constantly reaffirm your covenant, build trust, develop healthy attitudes towards your spouse and towards sex. It is about respect, and forgiveness.
It is about choosing to live life together in the power of blessing!
Song of Songs says, ‘You have captured my heart … your love delights me, my treasure … your love is better than wine … your lips as sweet as nectar … honey and milk are under your tongue …!’ – Song of Songs 4:9-11.
Be fun, be explosive, be playful and be passionate!
Remember – companionship together with commitment and passion create an environment where your sexual relationship can flourish.