A life of integrity is a life you can trust.
The psalmist speaks of the power of purity and of a life of integrity: “I will give heed to the blameless way. When wilt Thou come to me? I will walk within my house in the integrity of my heart. I will set no worthless thing before my eyes; I hate the work of those who fall away; it shall not fasten its grasp on me. A perverse heart shall depart from me; I will know no evil. He who walks in a blameless way is the one who will minister to me” (Psalm 101:2-4, 6).
The message of Scripture is simply this: How we live in private does matter, because God sees all. A life of integrity is the powerful basis from which to build character into another person’s life.
The bad news is that all of us have deceitful hearts. The good news is that God is at work, hammering us into shape—to resemble Jesus, “who gave Himself for us, that He might redeem us from every lawless deed and purify for Himself a people for His own possession, zealous for good deeds” (Titus 2:14).
Look at your life to see if there is any persistent deceit. If so, you will not make much headway in challenging deceit in your child. Watch for the subtle deceptions we adults are so prone to—giving phony reasons for not taking phone calls, failing to keep promises to our children, offering excuses to get out of commitments and to change plans, and so on. You need to face up to these areas where you’re failing and ask God to work in your heart so that you model a life of integrity for your child.
1. Read Dennis and Barbara Rainey’s article on “40 Lessons We Sought to Teach Our Children.”
2. Listen to Stephen and Alex Kendrick, best known for their films Courageous andFireproof, talk to parents about their new book, The Love Dare for Parents, a 40-day challenge to parents to love their kids.
3. While They Were Sleeping equips parents to pray for God to build 12 character traits into their children. Click here to purchase.